Presentations – getting over your fears

I’m not going to try to pretend in this article that giving a presentation is anything other than a stressful experience. Even the most experienced and accomplished presenter may be in a total state of panic in the lead up to his or her presentation.

However, there are certain fears that can block us from even preparing our presentation – and these can be dealt with by good preparation. Let’s look at them.

1.You get so nervous that your mouth goes completely dry.

Well the obvious solution is to make sure that you have a glass of water near you. Even better, have a couple of glasses of water shortly before you start – but not enough to make you want to have a bathroom break during the presentation :-)

2.You cannot think of a word to say. Your mind is completely blank.

Rehearse, rehearse, rehearse. If you can rehearse in the place where you are to give your presentation, then so much the better. Have a written copy of your speech close by, just in case. And  have a photo of somebody you love with you so that you can glance at it if you need reassurance.

3.The audience looks bored and people start conversations between themselves.

You need to be enthusiastic as a speaker. Your enthusiasm will convey itself to the audience. Good eye contact with the audience also helps. However, sometimes the audience is just not interested in too much detail on a particular point. Be prepared to cut your presentation if necessary.

4.Your visual aids don’t work properly.

This can be a nightmare for any speaker – and sometimes things happen which are outside of your control. However, make sure that you have mastered everything within your control. Make sure you know exactly how all the visual aids work well in advance of the presentation.

5.Members of the audience heckle during your presentation or are very aggressive during the questions

Well at least you’re getting a reaction ;-)    The one key rule is to be polite and courteous at all times. Ask the hecklers to raise their points in the questions after the presentation. Then deal with them courteously. Where possible, try to anticipate these objections before the presentation and prepare answers to them. If you are stuck for an answer, throw the question back at the rest of the audience. This will give you more time to formulate your response.

I think many presenters fear that one of these situations will arrive during their presentation. However, think back through the hundreds of presentations you have been to. How often have you seen one of these occur? Rarely, I imagine. Don’t let fear of these cloud your mind too much. But do take the preventative steps I have suggested.

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148 Responses to “Presentations – getting over your fears”

  1. Jabir Suluki Says:

    I think that iif you are well prepared for the presentation it will give that extra confidence you need
    Not all in the audience are interested in what you saying especially if you are hitting area in a sensetive field

  2. omim Says:

    thank you

  3. Ahmed Says:

    Thank you so much Mr.

  4. Ahmed Says:

    Thank you so much Mr. Brown. I realy felt that this is what I needed.

  5. nahla Says:

    thanks a lot for your tips

  6. Aom Says:

    I have found one of these problem to me. It was blank in my head.

    Thank you very much for tips and listening lesson :)

  7. MARU Says:

    Thank you Mr. Brown,althought the audio, is faster,I need to practice more time.I try it.

  8. Hoai Ninh Says:

    it it very useful to anyone who want to improve their listening skill
    thank you very very much

  9. Naageswaran V K Says:

    I have always found that starting a presentation with the personal experience woven around the central theme of the presentation gives the speaker a solid ground of confidence from which he could easily take off.This also has the advantage of orienting the audience towards the subject matter of talk.

  10. Jafet Says:

    These tips are very usefull
    thank you so much!!!

  11. Lupita Says:

    Thanks for your tips Mr. Brown . They really help to make better presentations.

  12. Chocolate Says:

    Thanks for your advice. It’s helpful for me because I’m having a mini-speech next time. Sure it help me very much to prepare my speech clearly. Thanks again!

  13. Daniel Says:

    Thank you.. This text give me courage to make better presentacions, and to prepare me as a leader.

  14. Mirta Poggio Says:

    Very interesting and useful. Thank you very much!!

  15. Ngoc Says:

    Thanks alot!

  16. M.Kamal Says:

    Dear sir/madam,
    Really this presentation will be usefull for me. I am looking for sentence formation. I am getting so much trouble when writing a sentence.Please advice me.

  17. Marcelo Says:

    It’s very nice to receive theses emails from you Mr. Brown. Thanks a lot!

  18. Djelloul Says:

    I need receive friendly letters .Please, send them to me. Thanks.

  19. Tamara Says:

    Dearest friends,
    It was a real gift to find your letter this morning
    in my e-mail box. First of all, I wish Caroline to get well as soon as posible and I will pray she will be able to join us again with her lovely voice.
    Thank you for the presentation,it is necessary for everybody and at all times. I’ll use this with my students at once. Ialso wish to thank you for the simplicity of using the sent material – everything is handily and convinient and wholly ready for using.
    Love,
    Tamara

  20. Karen Yen Says:

    Tks so much.

  21. Julia Says:

    Thank you very much, Mr.Brown.

  22. K.Paul Says:

    Nice suggestions!
    I personally feel that a short meditation on the “subject” just before delivery helps a lot.
    Also a bit Practice is essential.
    Many thanks

  23. Zahidul Islam Biswas Says:

    Thank you Mr Brown. It is really helpful for the new presentors.

  24. Mohan Indrajith Says:

    Thank you very much Mr. Brown, It is really helpful!

  25. Ankur sharma Says:

    Hi,

    First of all,i want to say thanks for this beautiful and accomplished letter.This is the most useful to know how to wipe out the fear and it has enhanced my confidence.Now i do’t have any problem with presentation.

    Thanks once again
    Ankur sharma

  26. emad hussain Says:

    Dear Mr Brown,
    Thank you again for your useful tips.I thaik it is important to be well prepared befor the presentation. Be prepared , be prepared before you present your presentation. Try to speak with some audience befor the presentaion, that helps you to know the level of your udience.One again I thank you very much Mr Brown, and I do hope to receive more from you.
    Kindest regards,
    Emad Hussain

  27. Oryem Says:

    Thx alot. Next I have a presentation I will be more confident. Thx for the advices

  28. Deden Says:

    Thanks a lot Mr Brown

  29. Jean-Jacques Shamsaf Says:

    Thanks a million for your emails are of great importance.God bless you…

    J.J. Shamsaf

  30. Jason Says:

    Thanks much.
    And I want to share my doohickey with u all. I think most of us have the experience that: we were not be fear when we angrily talked with somebody or soliloquized in the presence of nobody. However we were usually nervous/atwitter when we talked with our secret love. So when I were presenting first, I told me that the audience were my enemies. hehe,

  31. kenneth Says:

    Thank you very much Mr. Brown.

  32. Inguna Says:

    I was very pleasured to receive this email from you. However I had some experience in the field of presentations, it was very interesting and useful to got someones suggestions. They really works!

  33. leila.amri Says:

    good morning

    It’s very interesting and useful.
    Every listening lesson is a surprise and all things are well done and well prepared.
    I got enthusiasm with you and caroline sharing your experience in this field.
    I wish caroline will get better soon

    have anice day

  34. leila.amri Says:

    good morning

    It’s very interesting and useful.
    Every listening lesson is a surprise and all things are well done and well prepared.I got enthusiasm with you and caroline sharing your experience in this field.
    I wish caroline will get better soon

    have anice day

  35. Alain Says:

    Awesome! Especially the one on throwing back the question to the audience. It never feels like you are challenged by the question. Moreover, it gives you plenty of time and inspiration to respond. Someone else may even do that before and better than you!

  36. Mary Says:

    Thanks a lot Mr Brown for these precious pieces of advice.

  37. Waddah Ali Says:

    Thank you so much for such great information which really help us develop techniques towards a perfect presentation.

  38. Anastasia Says:

    Thank you very much, Mr. Brown!

  39. Abou Zainah Says:

    Thank you very much my teacher

  40. nhi Says:

    thank you for your subject, it’s really great

  41. Roopa Ghosh Says:

    I always try to use as many of your teaching aids as possible but never get down to thanking you for them.
    This last piece is as effective in the schoolroom as in a class for effective communication skills.
    Thanks for the help

  42. mtwaha Says:

    Great presentation

  43. Ali Says:

    thank you very much Mr Brown It is really helpful for my students they like to study English with it

  44. essafi Says:

    Dearest friends,
    It was a real gift to find your letter this morning
    Thank you very much Mr Brown, It is really helpful for me to practice a presentation.
    Please how to use this recordng…….
    ………………………………….???????
    To listen to a recording of this, press the PLAY button.

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    Podcast: Play in new window | Download

  45. essafi Says:

    Dear sir/madam,
    Really this presentation will be usefull for me, but i can’t use the recording?????? I am looking for sentence formation. I am getting so much trouble when writing a sentence.
    Best regards

  46. Hossein B Says:

    Thank you, Mr.Brown very much.
    It was really helpful.

  47. shahid Says:

    Thanks for ur wonderful tips Mr.Brown….

  48. valina Says:

    Mr. Brown,
    Thank you for the presentation,it is necessary and useful for everybody.Thanks a lot!

  49. muhammed Says:

    Thanks a lot. Useful ideas. Helpful tips.

  50. Zdenka Says:

    Thank you very much, Mr.Brown.

  51. Aubrey Says:

    Hi Mr. Brown!
    Thank you so much . It really helps me a lot.

  52. Aubrey Says:

    Hi Mr. Brown!
    It was great! It helps me a lot!

  53. Aubrey Says:

    Hi Mr. Brown!
    I am so lucky to be one of those thousands who received it… It helps a lot… Thanks so much!

  54. linh Says:

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  55. diaa Says:

    thanks for your great interest

  56. Ana Lopes Says:

    Thank you much! These tips are very useful!!

  57. lydia Says:

    Thanks for the lesson

  58. Mr Hung Says:

    Thank you Mr Brown.

  59. Janis Says:

    Thank you… your advices is very useful.

  60. Kotti Amel Says:

    Thankou very much Mr Brown for sending us such important tips and emails. I wish that Caroline will be better as soon as possible. I will be hearing from you soon. Thanks again

  61. hang Says:

    I think it useful for me and improve my listening skill.Thank you very much

  62. rebecca Says:

    good job!! The listening and the writing were very very clear!!!

  63. potendro Says:

    After reading your guide line, now i have some confidence in me.And I pray to the Almighty for Caroline to get well as soon as posible.

    with best regards
    potendro.

  64. Cristina Says:

    Thanks for your help, it´s always important to receive new things and it is a very good listening activity.

  65. krsty Says:

    thanks

  66. Rastislav Says:

    Thanks Pearson,

    I consider your article interesting.
    I have been giving lectures (not in english)for two years and I must confirm that the most important thing is perfect preparation and of course good ability for improvisation (in case of failure of technics) .
    My advice: It is good to memorize first 20 sentences – it will give you more confidence from the begining.

    Bye

  67. Alberto Says:

    this is the first time i send a mensaje to Caroline I hoppe you can answer to mi
    i rely want to learn inglish
    tanks

  68. miriam Says:

    We are all required to make presentations at one time or another and the need for these skillls cannot be over emphasised, thank you for the insightful tips.
    miriam

  69. A. POIRSON Says:

    quite different from the other lessons but as instructive and interesting, especially regarding this topic -presentation- containing a lot of helpful instructions.
    a little bit more difficult regarding the english level; I definetely need to improve my oral understanding!
    Thank you very much for this lesson and all the previous ones…

  70. Nicoleta Says:

    Thank you for your advise. Could you help me with my English? I want to conversation with somebody for improve my English.

  71. DEBBIE Says:

    thanks so much i´m continually learning a lot

    contiue send to my mail your suggestions and articles..

  72. Mohammad Says:

    It’s really dificult to understand(except by downloading the file.

  73. Daniela Says:

    Thank you very much. It’s very useful and it’s a good thing that I can listen to these materials later again, because I’m so busy now and don’t have enough time to practice. I wish you all the best!

  74. malika Says:

    thanks a lot .

  75. Mohamed Says:

    Thank you so much for the tips. they are very useful especially for beginers. Hence we should urge our students to give presentations in class in frnt of their colleagues before they are compelled to do so in front of unknown audiences.

  76. KHALED Says:

    Thanks a lot.. Mr. Brown.It is really good.

  77. Layla MSO Says:

    Really, they’re lovely and useful tips. Many thanks

  78. Sridevi Says:

    Wow!!! This is really fabulous and miraculous

  79. barry Guo Says:

    Hello, Dear Mr.Brown
    I’ve received your subject.Thank you so very much.

  80. SONG NGUYEN Says:

    Dear Ms Caroline,

    Thank a lot for you kind information.
    I wish you will be in good health in the coming day.
    It’s very interesting in this programme and I hope I will receive your documents continuously.
    BR,

    Nguyen Song
    Email: nv_song@ymail.com
    Skype: nguyensong56
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  81. Donald F. Navarro Says:

    I found your comments very appropriate. I went myself through these problems, especially when I started dealing with the parents in my scout group (circa 1956!) –long ago overcame.

  82. emy Says:

    Hi, Mr. Brown.
    Thanks for sending me tips. Hope you can slao send me tips in emceeing a wedding and a graduation/commencement. Just wanna know the RIGHT words to say…:)
    God bless…

  83. emy Says:

    correction: slao, it’s also…

  84. nguyenlelinhlan Says:

    Thank you very much.I think it is very useful for me to practice the presentation.

  85. tamer.nazmy Says:

    thanks alot ,it is already good global caustions ,and i feel we need more advanced skills in our presentations.

  86. viv shapiro Says:

    I found the points very well laid-out and relevant for students, lecturers, all walks of life.
    I also enjoyed listening to your well-modulated voice and found the pace easy to follow.
    Thank you.

  87. Barbara Says:

    Hi,
    thanks for your tips.
    One of the main issues I have been through during the presentation is doing it in another language! :-)
    But if you rehearse and rehearse everything can be done properly!

    Thanks
    Barbara

  88. Sonia Says:

    Thanks a lot. This session was very useful

  89. Walton Says:

    Thank you very much for these very good advices. Especially the one to keep calm. It’s true that it is very important.

  90. alexandra Says:

    Thank you for share this important topic!It is very useful.

  91. joao Says:

    Thank you for your interesting article about presentations. I’ve analyzed your suggestion and I agree with your clarified points.
    If you permitted, I would like to add two more points; the presenter must known himself and what he wishes to transmit.In second, she/he must practice before several times alone or with someone else in order to know what parts our speech it’s necessary to improve.

  92. evince Says:

    thnx a million br brownn ur classes are very useful

  93. Hege Bygmester Says:

    Thanks! It is very nice to get your mails and hear some other speaking English. (because I hear only Norwegian in my school).
    H.B.

  94. Marcia Says:

    Thanks a lot.
    I found this presentation very helpful.
    You state the points in a very clear and concise way.
    The tips will be most useful.
    I look forward to receive your next documents.

  95. Baila Says:

    i’m very proud to be here.thank you Mr Brown,you’re very useful.Good health

  96. Iftekhar Khalid Says:

    Thank you so much for the tips which would be helpful for warming up. I hope you would send us more tips like these in future. Thanks a lot, Mr. Brown

  97. hameed Says:

    dear friend,
    thank you so much for the nice tips … I am teaching public speaking and I have been applying the techniques on myself and on my students … have a gr8 day … hug

  98. Vera Dudochkina Says:

    Thank you so much for these tips. I am going to give a presentation next week at the global HR meeting at work. This is helpful at this moment. I will be sure to remember the tips.

  99. Agus Susanto Says:

    Thanks. Everything I got here is very helpful for my teaching activities.

  100. salvador a. alberto II Says:

    many,many thanks! what a detailed tip

  101. soufiane Says:

    I am grateful to you Mr Brown

  102. anemarie Says:

    Dear sir

    You’ve been recording useful information about presentations, but I have some problems keeping listening and concentrate myself during these presentations. Sometimes it happens just because of this way you talked about.
    Thank you.
    Best regards

  103. tuyet Says:

    hello!
    I think your tips are fundamental principles for a good presentation.yes, they’re helpful.thank Mr Brown for that.

  104. thegrinder Says:

    thank u mr. l ike that

  105. Paulo Says:

    thanks

  106. isma Says:

    thank you very much Mr Brown, this is opportunity to me to practice used your adviced.

  107. Bakhit Says:

    Thanks alot Mr.Brown for the very impotant and useful tips.

  108. srkalvala Says:

    thank you , really i learned to hoe to present a presentation in group of audience. thanks once again, i hope look forward for some more articles of this type.

  109. srkalvala Says:

    thank you , really i learned to how to present a presentation in group of audience. thanks once again, i hope and look forward for some more articles of this type.

  110. Saad Says:

    Thank you very much for your interesting article about presentations.
    I wish you will be in good health.

  111. Agathemai Says:

    Dear Mr. Brown,

    Thanks for your mail relating to presentations. They are useful for me in my work.

    Best regards,
    Agathemai

  112. Sándor from Hungary Says:

    I will try follow your advise and your speed

  113. Loreto from CHILE Says:

    Thank you so much for allowing me to listen to real material !!
    I´m an English teacher willing for new sources of teaching .

  114. Shalee Says:

    Dear Mr. Brown,
    Whenever I talk in front of a lot of people, I always feel lots of butterflies in my stomach. All my confidence fade away, my tongue begins to twist, and all. With your lessons and tips that I received and soon be received, I pray that it will slowly vanishes my fears and anxieties….. Thank you in advance and God Bless you always,

  115. Kim Phung Says:

    Thank you so much for your really usefull lesson.

  116. Manimaran Says:

    Thank u very much. ur suggestion are helpful and welcomed

  117. Vince Says:

    hi,Mr.Brown
    I think this topic is useful for anyone getting a nervous motion when speaking in public.
    Thanks for sharing.

  118. Carlos Otávio Says:

    I’m glad to receive your aid on how to deal with some setbacks in a presentation. I’m Really grateful. A zillion thanks!

  119. marwa Says:

    Thanks Mr. , these are good steps to follow..

    it always happen with me when i have presentations spi,ll try to use these steps in my next presnentation ..
    ecially my mouth which get dry :P

    Thanks again ,, ba bye :)

  120. Felicita DR Says:

    Hi!
    I’m glad to receive your tips.
    God Bless you Mr Brown!

  121. Ramia Says:

    Dear Mr.and Mrs Brown
    i want to thank you for you help.
    you are like angels.
    thank you a million

  122. Ramia Says:

    Dear Sir Brown
    i just want to thank you a lot and wish you a good day.

  123. Jorge Luis Says:

    this was very helpful,thanks a lot!!!

  124. Bishop Francis E. Revels - Bey Says:

    Hi Ms. Brown,

    I remember when I first began my public speaking, so all of this applies. Now after 35 years worth of public speaking this acts as a refresher course. I always find it best to make friendly eye contact with a few people first. Also, I have learned to step away from the podium and if at all possible walk into an aisle or right up to the friendly area of the room and continue to deliver the presentation. I use plenty of hand gestures that invite them into my heart as I am invited into their hearts. Beyond that I have fun making the audience comfortable.

    Thanks again with this timely piece.

  125. edna Says:

    thank u so much… I really like listening to you… it is very helpful…

  126. edna Says:

    i love it thank u so much…
    hope to hear from u soon…

  127. H?ng Vân Says:

    Thank Mr Brown.I try to do what you writed in this topic.I think, this was helpful for me. Thanks for sharing.

  128. Putra Says:

    Hi All,
    When I had my first presentation, it was looked like facing and and having a test of my confident. My first presentasion was carried on in front of a group of expert, professor and other person who I thought were more intelligence than me. Yet, I just share you, that learning your stuff is the most important. What is the reasons, fact, and relationship among our statement.
    Wish every our presentation would succeeded
    Cheers

  129. Patricia Says:

    Hi!

    This piece of information has been effective in order to give effective presentation.
    I would like to know;How one can perk up the enthusiasm level.

  130. Zahid Hussain Says:

    The more you have clear understanding of the topic, the more your presentation goes good.

  131. ale Says:

    thank you so much…I look forward to receive your next documents.

  132. hoainam Says:

    thank you

  133. Ali Says:

    Thank you very much for your kind efforts. I became one of your fans and hope that it will be continued in future. Wishing all the best

  134. rehab Says:

    thank you thank you

    thank you

  135. Sakti Says:

    It’s hard to say by my words, now I got little advance from this. Thanks your mail and kind help. I am always wait fresh your mail.

  136. Uyen Says:

    Thank very much. thanks. May God bless you.

  137. Biola Says:

    Dear Mr. Brown,
    Thank you so much for this wonderful effort in spreading the gospel of communicating (well?) in English. Being a Nigerian,English as the language of trade and politics is a vital tool especially to be able to communicate across the over 400no local languges and dialects. I particularly appreciate the way you present these lectures so systematically as one would teach a primary school child. Wonder if you couldoblige me with grammar exercises fit for undergraduates. Hope Caroline gets well soon. Please let her know we miss her.

  138. Chimgeekhuu Says:

    Dear Mr, & Mrs Brown,

    Very jooyful friday evening to both of you. After my long day of duty at Uni, I’ve had my dinner an read the text about effective presentation. It’s ral handivap to me. Juniors in accounting course at our institute have to have presentation, me likewise will have it , too, sooner for our lecturers of ACC, ID, Finance Department. Whilst, I’m not good at it even though I’m teacher.
    These tips really have encouraged me. I’ll also photocopy it and retell my ss, next week.
    I whish Caroline healthiness, and fruitful inspiration when she back to her audio room for our sake.
    By the way, could you pleace send me regarding efficiency and cohesion of “General& Business english in today’s global adoption. That would be grateful if you write me some tips, asap, possible.

    Take care of yourselves

    Chimgee

  139. Moogii Says:

    Thanks for sending me email.It was very interesting.

  140. Moogii Says:

    Thank you very much for an email.It was very interesting.

  141. Ms Reema Says:

    Dear Mr and Mrs Brown,
    Thanks a lot for the practical ,helpful ,insightful hints.As a trainer iv been able to raise the bar as far as the quality of a presentation is concerned and i owe a lot to you.I wish Caroline gets well soon and continues the good work.
    Ms Reema.

  142. samara Says:

    thank u mr.Brown

  143. Ms. Duangchan Says:

    Thank you very much indeed.

  144. Conchita Says:

    Thank you so much!

    My mind goes blank when I present, but I rehearsed yesterday and today.

    Your tips reminded me I have done excellent in past presentations.

    I also teach effective presentations and I will support my students who helps on this.

    Keep in touch.

  145. jiji Says:

    Thank you very much my teacher

  146. Cuc Phuong Says:

    Well, I have been in such a situation that my mouth was completely dry and I couldn’t remember anything. That was my real experience. Now I sometimes feel very difficult to make a speech.
    Thank you very much.

  147. diabate Says:

    thank you very much

    I face so many difficulties to make a speech in front of peoples. I think my probleme have nown a solution so thanks for your lessons.
    thanks

  148. HToan_Vietnam Says:

    I’m so happy when having a chance to learn English from your web.It is very useful for me in doing presentations.thank you so much.

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